Tuesday, July 22

Subtle Signals

My friend Jeff is trying to find out if a girl he likes is giving him any sort of signals showing her interest in him. He believes she may like him, but he's not sure. He, like most men, is not very good with subtle signals and signs when it comes to women.
Jeff is kind of a player, he's dating a girl he met at a bar a couple of days ago, and he's dating a couple of girls here at work. But now he's flirting with a girl that he's liked for a long time. He says he's putting a log of effort into it, but he's not getting any clear impressions.
She's a friendly person, but she seems to pay a bit of extra attention to him. When he's around she'll break off a conversation she's having with someone else to talk to him. But she doesn't give any of the regular physical signals. She doesn't do the hair flip, or the lip lick, or the gentle knee touch, or any of those.
She smiles at him regularly, but she does that with most people.
I think his main problem is that she's very pretty and he's afraid that a girl as pretty as she is, wouldn't like him.
I too am bad with all the signals. Most of the girls I've dated have made the first move, or blatantly told me they like me. Pixi-Stix did, and had she not, I wouldn't have had the guts to ask her out.
Why are women so damn subtle all the time? Don't you all know that guys are horrible when it comes to recognizing signs? And we're all intimidated by the girls we like, so it's hard for us to build up the courage to ask you out. Silly women! It's a surprise that any of us are with each other !


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